Why do I try? It seems like such an easy task at hand but apparently society or something I'm completely missing has made this a much more complicated task than it really is. I'm a firm believer in “ignorance isn’t bliss” and I do everything I can to avoid making assumptions, especially of friends. However when certain situations arise that I’ve had arise many times over my life, it’s hard to separate my experiences from what I see happening.
I really hope and pray to God I’m wrong, but honestly, I haven’t been wrong yet in this regard. First time for everything right? I hope so. I actually pray that I’m wrong.
Of course, if that prayer is answered, would I actually realize it or be so blinded by my pride that I miss the answer? I mean, there are definitely obvious actions I could take, but are those risks right? What if they’re not? How much would/could I lose? Too much in my mind.
P.S. Women, if a guy asks you out and you don’t want to go, just say “no”. If you put the stipulation of “I don’t have the time” or any stipulation for that matter; almost every guy knows or should know that that is an automatic “No”. If he is respectful of you, he will take your answer at full value. Gray answers aren’t good either. As a guy, when it comes to this, be direct. A “yes” or “no” is a very simple answer and dependent on the answer, not waste your time or ours. We’ve taken a risk by showing our cards when we ask you on a date, please don’t brush that off as nothing as for many, it is an extremely scary risk.
And breathe…venting is over. Maybe a technology blog next time, something less intense or thought provoking. Well, I hope this is thought provoking in some regards.
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